What do you think about wearing strap ons in public? I like wearing them in public, to work, to go to the shops.
They make me feel complete, and are really comfortable.
I sometimes get some strange looks, but it's the comfort what matters right?
I love slipping on my strap on every morning before i go to work.
Seriously they are the most comfortable shoes in the world.
What do you think |
| Can't find any to fit me...dammit. Size 10 men's is hard to locate! |
When lesbians wear strap-ons, do they get any type of pleasure when thye hump the other? I'm just curious, it wouldnt be fair if I was a lesbia n lol. i just want to know if the pleasure is one sided? |
Yup, usually.
There are several ways:
1) There are some double-sided dildos like the Feeldoe, Nexus, or Share that allows the person wearing the strap-on to get some penetration as well, and feel each thrust as well.
2) Many strap-on harnesses have small vibrating bullets in them to stimulate the wearer.
3) Many who are sensitive can get stimulation from the base of the dildo pushing against their clits.
4) Some people get a strong mental enjoyment out of it- seeing "their d*ck" sliding in and out, feeling the fun and genderbending of having something protruding from their body, etc., etc.. And sex DOES start between the ears, after all. |
My girlfriend and I are wondering about strap ons? We have decided to try something different and are looking to buy a strap on. as they are not cheap in many cases we are looking for a good one. she has given me the priveldge of looking for one online to order, but i have no idea. i know what i would wear but i am not her, so i cannot say what she will like. I am looking for an answer to come from someone who really know what they are talking about. Thank you |
It depends on how often you think you'll be using it. If just occasionally, a relatively cheap brand should do fine.
If you want to make a real serious investment, however, some are better than others. I hear AMAZING things about the SpareParts Harness:
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As well as the Aslan leather harness:
www.aslanleather.com/catalog/inde…
I assume you're talking about harnesses, since most are capable of handling any dildo that you may like to put into it.
In the end, though, if she's going to be wearing it, SHE should be looking online for it, either by herself or with you. You cannot say what she'll like, and guess what? We're not mind readers, either. We don't know if she wants a two-strap or one-strap style. We don't know if she longs to feel leather or some other material. We don't know if she wants an O-ring that lets her use a double-sided toy. We don't know if she would like a pouch to hold a vibrating bullet. These are things *she* needs to decide, if she's going to wear it.
This can be helpful:
www.babeland.com/sexinfo/howto/ch…
In the end, good luck! Enjoy it- strap-ons can definitely add a new, fun dimension to your sex play. |
Why do Lesbians use dildos and strap-ons? So, I've always wondered this. Why would they sue dildos and strap-ons? Don't they like females? They like to finger and lick each other's private parts. They are lesbians because they obviously aren't attracted to males but yet some females like to use dildos for penetration. So, lesbians, why do u guys use dildos and strap-ons? |
Preference is about a lot more than the genitals. I get a vibe just sitting next to guy in a bar that I'll never feel with a woman. A lot of lesbians like the feeling of being penetrated, just like straight women [and most gay men] do. Dildos and vibrators are just tools for people to give each other pleasure.
If it feels good and no one is getting hurt, who's to judge? |
Should FTMS use condoms on strap ons or lesbians? FTM = Female to male aka trans gender
Should they use condoms on strap ons, or anything...
if yes how come. |
| Condoms and/or dental dams are always recommended during all situations concerning sexual contact, whether the individual is FTM, MTF, heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, queer, intersex and the like. |
Has any girls ever tried strap ons? Has any lesbians or bisexuals tried strap ons? Was it weird? I wanna try one? |
| If you wan to try one than go for it. |
Is it normal for guys to be into sex with girls that have strap ons? My hubby wants to try this. I said it once, more of as a joke...at the time he said NO. Recently he brought up that he wanted to try it. He said it would be nice to be the reciever for a change... Well, I am o.k. with trying it but, I just hope this isn't a sign of something else. |
| I understand your concern towards it being a sign of something else; perhaps it's a sign that the two of you are about to find a new fun game you both like.... Don't worry, Hubby probably is curious about it and you should feel very good that he trusts you enough to ask you about it. |